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Kalathia Eginald
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Solid Raiden wrote:Real balls? It takes 5 minutes writing some meaningless words on a paper. Nothing more. Apologizing is just another way of manipulating people. So after this, this and this, all of the sudden he is sorry and we should just accept it? Words are meaningless unless followed by actions.
I was raised that an appology takes more strength than saying nothing. However I was also raised that an appology should be just "I am sorry for ....." too many words or the word "but" and it becomes an excuse. Different people are raised diferently and even as cycnical as I am I would not be so quick to discount one.
You are however contradicting yourself. If as you say "words are meaningless unless followed by actions" then the words that started this off are also meaningles unless he did hat he said others should do. It is a logical follow through from what you have said. |

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stavi shaushu wrote:CCP should clearly assess how this case can (and already is) damage reputation of Eve online and its community in the eyes of the outside world if no real actions are taken against the Mittani. Choice is between CCP's reputation (profit) and a single Eve player.
What it hs done for the reputation of Eve is irrelevant. The only thing that matters in this case is the rules and any other things he has agreed to as a CSM and as a speaker at the event. Those are what CCP should look at when looking into this. If he broke the rules then he gets the appropriate sanction, if he did not then he does not get punished pure and simple.
I found what he did abhorant, by the way and as I am new I was not one of the people rushing to his defence. I said basically the same in the other thread.
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Posted - 2012.03.27 12:55:00 -
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stavi shaushu wrote:If CCP does not do anything, the victim could start legal actions and sue both Alex Gianturco and CCP.
EDIT. It will not be about internet spaceships then.
I could start a legal action tomorrow, it means nothing. It has to make it past checks and balances before it even gets near a court. Even if it does the judge can throw it out if he or she decides it still has no merrit in law.
Starting legal actions is easy, carrying them through to the end however is not. |

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Kara Roideater wrote:How the media ends up (ab)using it doesn't really depend on what it 'is', so much as on what it can be presented as. And if they do pick it up it will certainly be presented in the context of cyber-bullying as this is a term currently much beloved by the media. In the UK at least, this rubric is not restricted to stuff involving kids but the additional dimension of it happening in a 'game' is bound to reinforce the 'think of the children!' aspect of any story.
Like they did with the game Manhunt, I think that was the name of the game anyway. It was removed from the shelves of all stores after a boy got killed and the killer, himself a child, was said to own the game and that is what led to the murder. It turned out however that they boy who was killed owned the game and not the killer and so they reappeared on the shelf and the story died down.
To the one who said bullying, and cyber bullying mostly, concerned children. Incorrect bullying can happen to adults too. People who tend to say bullying is not worth the fuss are the ones who bullied or were not victims to bullying but bystanders. |

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Posted - 2012.03.27 13:04:00 -
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Snow Axe wrote:The media isn't going to run with a story of a 47 year old man (according to his in-game bio) getting kind-of-sort-of-not-really bullied in a video game that nobody outside of the gaming community has even heard of. There's no press there, nothing to grab onto, especially not with The Wis himself not being too keen on reliving and rehashing that part of his life (think about why he has yet to post in any of these threads - it's probably not a fun thing for him to talk about if it's true, and if it's all made up, then yeah).
You've obviously not bothered with the media when it was a "quiet news day". They can and do twist things to their own agenda. If they can make use of it they will if they can't they won't. The person this was aimed at is irrelevant if they can twist it without him. |

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Posted - 2012.03.27 17:13:00 -
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Nacion Allier wrote:What is just as important in this case is what CCP intend to do.
Actually this is the only thing that is important. Yours, mine or anyone elses opinion on what should happen to him is irrelevant. The only thing that matters is the rules he has agreed to and if he has in anyway broken them. If he has then he gets the appropriate sanction which may not be banning him, if he hasn't then he gets no sanction what so ever.
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Posted - 2012.03.27 17:14:00 -
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THE L0CK wrote:What's a dumpass?
An ass that takes the action that an arse is meant to do in the vernacular and that is take a dump? Though I am only guessing here. |

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Posted - 2012.03.27 21:11:00 -
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Marlona Sky wrote:You mean wait a few days and see if the recent events is still a PR nightmare for CCP and all associated entities like the CSM? Because that is what you just said.
Mittani/Alex created a situation that leaves only two options for CCP:
1. Don't ban Alex and all his accounts thus sending the message to all players and the gaming community that CCP supports cyber bullying with the goal to get another player to kill themselves in real life.
2. Ban Alex and all his accounts sending a clear message that CCP does not tolerate cyber bullying with the intent to have someone kill themselves in real life.
That is the situation he created for himself and CCP. No one else did this. He has only himself to blame.
Everyone no matter what your angle is knows damn well that if it was some ordinary player who did this he would be in perma-ban hell right now. Why should Mittani receive this special treatment? Does being on the CSM now or the next term mean they are not held to the EULA like the rest of the players?
Discussion after a cool down is better than a knee jerk reaction. Knee jerk reactions tend to be the worst mistakes. Much the same about knee jerk laws and changes to game rules.
1 and 2 both. If he has broken any rules then he should be sanctioned, if he has not then he should not be that is the simple fact of the matter.
I have read through the EULA and in my opinion it does not apply here. However we have no idea what people who are CSM and people as speakers at the event have to sign upto. Those are what will be used to decide if he is to be sanctioned, not yours, mine or anyone elese opinions on whether he broke the rules or not. |

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Posted - 2012.03.27 21:44:00 -
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Abriael VonRosen wrote:Personally, I refrained writing an article over this because further bad press on this issue would just shed an undeserved bad light on the game and it's community.
That's exactly why a resignation would be appropriate. Words and apologies are cheap. If one really wants to own up to his actions he should face the full consequences of those actions.
Even looking beyond what it actually happened, I would be ashamed to be represented by someone that steps on a televised panel during a full expenses paid trip in a drunken state, without concern for the reputation of those he represents.
Appologies if meant are never cheap.
Saying words are cheap leads to the logical conclusion that what he said that started this is also cheap and therefore worthless of consideration which therefore negates the need for him to step down.
He will face the full consequences of his actions if CCP sanction him for his behaviour if it is appropriate to do so. He may even face them in the future with employees or even prospective employess in this day and age of net checks.
I am not a defender nor someone calling for it, I am trying to keep my personal thoughts of what should happen over this as they are irrelevant to what the decision by CCP may be. I have said however I do not think the behaviour acceptable, anf that is as far as I am willing to go on it.
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Posted - 2012.03.27 21:53:00 -
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geilesding wrote:Ranger 1 wrote:geilesding wrote:Look at all that goon tears crying about their momy getting kicked  Just 3 Words for you guys: deal with it Just 3 words for you: It's spelled mommy. Those are 4 words 
Actually it's two words and a contraction if you want to get technical.
Ranger 1 it is spelt mummy. Dear me you yanks..........  |

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Posted - 2012.03.27 22:03:00 -
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Princess Bride wrote:Yep. It's pretty clear that a complete 180 was necessary for even the slightest chance of getting out of this with a CSM spot and his accounts intact. However I believe that was only wishful thinking. It may mitigate the damage somewhat, but he's not going to emerge unscathed, and he knows it. CCP cannot afford to just let him off the hook at this point, period. Legal and PR need a head on a platter.
Actually they don't the people calling for it do. There in lies part of the problem.
Even if he is sanctioned for his behaviour some of the people will not be happy unless they see what is done. To me that is not justice but vengance. Justice will be he gets what ever punishment he deserves if any and not my or anyone else seeing him hanged, drawn and quarted.
No one escapse from a balls up with their undies still intact, it happens to all of us at some point or other I go red thinking of some of the things I have done in the past, kareokee and me are not a good combination especially after a few snakebites and black. However it is what happens after it that matters. Making a mistake once is human, however learning from it is not stupid. |

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Posted - 2012.03.27 22:12:00 -
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Abriael VonRosen wrote:Ultimately the room of discussion is limited. The CSM grants a certain amount of personal visibility, influence and advantages. With the perks comes responsibility, and consequence for the breach of that responsibility needs to be unforgiving.
Now that the media got its hands on this mess (and mind you the same should happens if the media didn't, as it should be a matter of principle), the only way for the CSM to keep it's credibility is to remove the offender.
Do we seriously want to be publicly represented by someone that doesn't have the slight sense necessary not to get wasted before a televised panel he has to speak at, during an all expenses paid trip? That seems a rather mindboggling idea to me.
How many politicians have been caught with prossies, doing drugs, having an affair, and are still in their seats?
I'd rather be represented by someone who has made a mistake, is willing to admit it and learn from it, otherwise known as a human being, than some of the hollier than thou politicians we get. Whether or not he will learn form it is something that will have to be seen as until it is it is just conjecture that he will.
I can see both side of this argument, as I have no vested interest in either camp, and in the end what will happen will happen and we have to accept it or vote with our money. |

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Posted - 2012.03.27 22:26:00 -
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Lt Pizi wrote:this isnt politics and the csm isnt a democracy
ccp will do whats best for them , and imo that is the banhammer
You are both correct and incorrect in this . He was elected after all, though the company makes it technically a dictatorship.
Yes CCP will do what they see as appropriate, however your opinion of what it should be, and mine as well, is irrelevant to the matter. If he has broken whatever he has to agree to in his position he sould and I think will be sanctioned. However if he hasn't then no sanction shold be implimented. |

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Posted - 2012.03.27 22:32:00 -
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Abriael VonRosen wrote:Kalathia Eginald wrote: How many politicians have been caught with prossies, doing drugs, having an affair, and are still in their seats?
Not that many actually, especially between those that covered prominent positions, and the CSM chair is a very prominent position in its context.
Clinton, a number of MPs in the UK either having affairs, voting against certain legislation even when they theselves are in the closet seeing rent boys, the PM of an EU country or two. I could go on.
Abriael VonRosen wrote:Quote:I'd rather be represented by someone who has made a mistake, is willing to admit it and learn from it I'd rather be represented, in a future mandate, by someone who as made a large mistake and is willing to actually face its full consequences, instead of just apologizing and hoping in getting away with it with a wirstslap.
Your presumptpon is that he has broken whatever someone in his position has to agree to and so will be sanctioned for that behvaiour. Then if he is deserving of a sanction that he will not get it.
If that is a slap on the wrist as you call it is immaterial, the punishment has to match what is stated to happen in such a situation, which may not be a ban, it could be a suspension. Anything beyond what the policies are in such a case become vengence and is not the right way to go. |

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Posted - 2012.03.27 22:45:00 -
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Von Mellenthin wrote:A product of the zero-defect society we live in now. Have to remember we are all human and some of us like to drink beer.
Yet the people we vote to represent us are and must be held to a higher standard than the rest of society as they are there to make decisions that can affect our lives for a long time to come, whether that is real world or game lives. they should also know to control themselves in public situation.
However when they do make a mistake an appology should be given and they should show they have learnt form it. This shows some level of strength of character. If however they repeat it again and agina then they need to step down. |

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Posted - 2012.03.27 23:11:00 -
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Adalun Dey wrote:Magnus Orin wrote:If the majority of the player base don't like him, well hey, he won't get in and everything will be sunshine and rainbows.
That sounds fair doesn't it? What happened to the lollipops?
What lollipops?..../hides the Chuppa-Chups wrappers under the cats. |

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Posted - 2012.03.27 23:43:00 -
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DelightSucker wrote:The lack of Response from CCP is disturbing, Mittens has gone under the ground in hope of the storm will go away and he happily can stay on CSM and in game
but saying he wants to resign and then not do it if he don't removes whatever credibility he have left after that stunt.
Not really. As this is still a rather hot topic they will be damned if they do and damned if they don't, either way will add fuel to the fire. Waiting to make a decision, or even announce it if they have is a more logical course to take. Knee jerk actions tend to be regetted later. |

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Posted - 2012.03.27 23:48:00 -
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Fenris Deka wrote:page 140 and this is still not locked?
Which is a sensible thing to do. Could you imagine how many topics there would be if they did lock it.
Ranger 1 wrote:Volgram wrote:Bane Necran wrote:I think everyone will be happy to after justice is served.
If you can only forgive a man, for what he has done, after he suffers, then you cannot forgive a man at all.  If actual justice were to be served, his punishment would end at being forced to watch replays of his bad jokes and asinine behavior for a few days.
Really I think this would be worse: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FCARADb9asE (I hold no responsability for any negative effects nor can be held liable for them if you choose to watch it) |

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Posted - 2012.03.27 23:54:00 -
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Ranger 1[:=d wrote: If actual justice were to be served, his punishment would end at being forced to watch replays of his bad jokes and asinine behavior for a few days.
Really I think this would be worse: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FCARADb9asE (I hold no responsability for any negative effects nor can be held liable for them if you choose to watch it)[/quote]
I dunno, that's a tough one to call.[/quote]
I as going to add Army of Lovers, Aga Doo, and the Birdie Songe but even I wouldn't be that cruel to link to them. 
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Posted - 2012.03.28 00:03:00 -
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Ranger 1 wrote:Kalathia Eginald wrote:Ranger 1[:=d wrote: If actual justice were to be served, his punishment would end at being forced to watch replays of his bad jokes and asinine behavior for a few days. (my post being replied to somehow editing messed it up)Really I think this would be worse: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FCARADb9asE(I hold no responsability for any negative effects nor can be held liable for them if you choose to watch it) Quote: I dunno, that's a tough one to call.
I as going to add Army of Lovers, Aga Doo, and the Birdie Songe but even I wouldn't be that cruel to link to them.  Okay, you win. 
/Pants on nails and buffs them on clothes. Ah I still have it.
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Terrorfrodo wrote:WTF? I now watched the video and this is NOTHING. We're talking about someone giving an IN-GAME NAME of another player during a GAMING CONVENTION. I initially thought that there were real names involved and the 'victim' might have been subjected to possible real-life harassment.
I was expecting some nasty stuff, but seriously, this is a joke.
You've never been on the recieving end of a 4chan search then I take it. You would be suprised what those in the know can find out just from an ingame name. |

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Posted - 2012.03.28 00:50:00 -
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Kallynda Nai wrote:Kalathia Eginald wrote:Terrorfrodo wrote:WTF? I now watched the video and this is NOTHING. We're talking about someone giving an IN-GAME NAME of another player during a GAMING CONVENTION. I initially thought that there were real names involved and the 'victim' might have been subjected to possible real-life harassment.
I was expecting some nasty stuff, but seriously, this is a joke. You've never been on the recieving end of a 4chan search then I take it. You would be suprised what those in the know can find out just from an ingame name. Yeah, because 4chan gives a **** about this guy. Come on.
Did I say they did? Please emphasise the part where I did.
In contexct to the comment it was correct. The post I was replying to seemed to thing that an in game name could never be traced to real life and the people there could if asked find a hell of a lot form just an ingame name given how many people link all their internet stuff together. |

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Posted - 2012.03.28 00:59:00 -
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Doddy wrote:RougeOperator wrote:
Its the same thing in the wash.
But this is a powerful person in the game whom has an army of sycophantic followers. He pretty much was dousing the person he named with gasoline while giving his buddies matches.
Afaik no-one acted on what he said, and an evemail is considerably less deadly than being set alight even if you do have suicidal tendencies, so once again you are twisting things. Sure there may have been a couple of guys listening who thought "it would be fun to greif this guy" but it is only in your fantasy that thousands of goons hang on Mittanis every drunken word.
To you yes, but you can not put your thought processes on someone with a mental health problem. Rational thought goes out of the window and it can take the mostmundane of things to tip someone over the edge.
I have worked in many jobs in my working life. One of those was in a mental health hosptial s an auxillary. The staff had a basic saying and that was "there but for the grace of (name your divintiy here) go I".
Some consider bullying as "part of the course" of growing up. Yet people have ran away or killed themselves over bullying. Those that are indifferent to it tend to be the bullies or those that stood on the side lines and let it happen. They say it to make themselves feel better about themselves.
Again I am talking generally here. |

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Posted - 2012.03.28 01:06:00 -
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ConranAntoni wrote:God can someone lock this thread, the level of terrible posting and idiots crapping up the forums with their QQ is too much for one forum section to handle.
If they did how many threads do you think will have appeared by later on today?
It is better leaving it in one thread.
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Posted - 2012.03.28 01:13:00 -
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Doddy wrote:Kalathia Eginald wrote:Doddy wrote:RougeOperator wrote:
Its the same thing in the wash.
But this is a powerful person in the game whom has an army of sycophantic followers. He pretty much was dousing the person he named with gasoline while giving his buddies matches.
Afaik no-one acted on what he said, and an evemail is considerably less deadly than being set alight even if you do have suicidal tendencies, so once again you are twisting things. Sure there may have been a couple of guys listening who thought "it would be fun to greif this guy" but it is only in your fantasy that thousands of goons hang on Mittanis every drunken word. To you yes, but you can not put your thought processes on someone with a mental health problem. Rational thought goes out of the window and it can take the mostmundane of things to tip someone over the edge. I have worked in many jobs in my working life. One of those was in a mental health hosptial s an auxillary. The staff had a basic saying and that was "there but for the grace of (name your divintiy here) go I". Some consider bullying as "part of the course" of growing up. Yet people have ran away or killed themselves over bullying. Those that are indifferent to it tend to be the bullies or those that stood on the side lines and let it happen. They say it to make themselves feel better about themselves. Again I am talking generally here. Thats just it, you are speaking generally. In reality the chances of any given email actually pushing someone over the edge are very slim. On the other hand being set alight is pretty much guaranteed to do you damage. I do not deny what Mittani did was worng and could conceivably have led to something terrible, but it is a long long way from being a death sentance like rogue is making out, even if the imaginary flurry of emails had ever been sent.
When I said I was talking generally I meant I was not aiming an attack at anyone, as in it was not aimed, I appologise as this was not clear in my post as it was in reference to the paragraph above it.
Again you can not place rational thought or what you think is irrelevant on to a person who is already unbalanced what can or can not tip someone over the edge is personal. going off on a tangent, most places have a solutions to debts that could effectively get rid of them, yet people kill themselves and in some cases their entire family over them.
In reality you do not know if that email is the straw that breaks the camels back or not. |

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Posted - 2012.03.29 22:22:00 -
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Bootleg Jack wrote:Ranger 1 wrote:T0R1 BL4CK wrote:Derek Chambers wrote:Do people actually think he wanted the kid to really kill himself? Idiots... it doesn't matter what that moron wanted or not. if that kid would have killed him over his ******** behavior the blood would be on his hands. no lame ass excuse can make that right. That "kid" is a 42 year old divorced man with no verifiable history illness or history of suicide attempts. Just clarifying. He was 22 a few days ago, space travel if fking hell on the bodies clock 
No the one who was the target is 42, I think it is Mit who is 22. |

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Posted - 2012.03.30 22:45:00 -
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Dear lord. It is over and done with. He has had his sanction, being suspended from the game for 30 days and losing his place on the CSM.
Enough is enough now. Time to move onto something different. |

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Posted - 2012.03.31 12:44:00 -
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Hamshoe wrote:Ai Shun wrote:Kalathia Eginald wrote:Enough is enough now. Time to move onto something different. They are not going to let it go. No matter that apologies have been made,... "I was really drunk at the time" stops being a sincere apology at about age 16. It's an attempt at an excuse.
Regardless of whether we do or do not see the appology as sincere he has been sanctioned for his behaviour that is why a line now needs to be drawn under it. As it is all that is going to happen is that people are going round and round in circles even more than before.
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CCP it is time for you to lock this up. This has been been beaten to death and there isn't even a corpse anymore and you are hitting the ground. |

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Ashley SchmidtVonGoldberg wrote:Im going down the pub in ten minutes for a pint. Anyone else interested?
Make mine a double gin and cola and I'm there. |

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Posted - 2012.04.03 21:29:00 -
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Jita Alt666 wrote:Kalathia Eginald wrote:Ashley SchmidtVonGoldberg wrote:Im going down the pub in ten minutes for a pint. Anyone else interested? Make mine a double gin and cola and I'm there. That is a shockingly poor choice for a refreshing beverage.
Who said anything about refreshing? I would leave out the gin if that is what I wanted. Though I have the unenviable ability never to forget what I did the night before regardless of the amount of alcohol taken in. Though it does annoy those that want to wind me up the "morning after" as I can just turn round and say "Nope I did x, y, z,"
RougeOperator wrote:Lanasak wrote:Bunch of vindictive hypocrites willing to threaten a developer's livelihood just to "get back" at somebody. Only vindictive ones are the goons mate. Space wizards are real, they can make 10058 votes vanish. "and for a moment i hurd 10k goons cry out, then silence"
Given the sig: Pot I'd like you to meet my friend Kettle. Kettle this is Pot, I am sure you have a lot to talk about. |

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Posted - 2012.04.04 10:43:00 -
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Harry Farina wrote:The Mittani isn't treating any of us with the respect we deserve. And we are speaking up thank you very much.
Respect is earnt, not deserved.
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Posted - 2012.04.04 17:28:00 -
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Harry Farina wrote:Kalathia Eginald wrote:Harry Farina wrote:The Mittani isn't treating any of us with the respect we deserve. And we are speaking up thank you very much. Respect is earned, not deserved. So tell me how you treat random strangers. They clearly haven't earned your respect. I mean how could they if they have never met you. Everybody new you meet is obviously disrespecting you. And what exactly is the criteria for your "respect".
I give everyone a basic level of respect, and generally people may call it good manners. That is something I give freely. However from that point on it is upto them whether the go up or down. |
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